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Would you rather date a person with low self-esteem, or someone who is cocky? By Username Bronze MedalSuper StarBronze Crown 1 year ago

Low self-esteem

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    guest from Texas, United States 1 year ago:
    low self esteem = more sex
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    guest from North Carolina, United States 1 year ago:
    And help him/her feel better about themself :)
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    guest from Nevada, United States 2 hours ago:
    Wtf
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    GagarocketFemaleGold MedalGold TrophySuper Star from Virginia, United States 17 hours ago:
    I hate cocky people.
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    guest from the United States 1 day ago:
    low self esteem. Good chance they will become emotionally attached to you, and you would have a much better relationship.
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    guest from Michigan, United States 3 days ago:
    low self esteem
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    guest from the United States 1 week ago:
    They would be like me
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    guest from Ghana 2 weeks ago:
    Wobbles
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    guest from Quebec, Canada 2 weeks ago:
    Low self esteem people are easily depressed and offended, cocky people are always happy and can't be put down
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    TberrMaleGold MedalBronze TrophySuper Star from Colorado, United States 3 weeks ago:
    i have low self esteem so i choose that unless they were really really needy then i would have to go with cocky. i get wanting to be around someone but to the point were you stalk their every move is to excessive.
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    guest from Washington, United States 3 weeks ago:
    Who would intentionally date someone thats cocky???!?!?
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    derpina111FemaleSilver MedalBlue Star from Sicilia, Italy 4 weeks ago:
    i picked the wrong one! >.< *tries to unclick and click other* come...ON!!hhhhhhmmmmmpppppppphhhh FUUUUUUUUU
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    mm61675Silver Medal from Maryland, United States 4 weeks ago:
    trust me. a person who has low self esteem is not fun to constantly be around. they are always saying they look ugly or fat or whatever and it gets to the point where it gets emotionally draining on you to always say "no you don't" or ignore what they say and be scared they might hurt themselves
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    guest from New Jersey, United States 4 weeks ago:
    What's cocky?
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    guest from Wisconsin, United States 4 weeks ago:
    Lolzies OTH :3
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    guest from Florida, United States 4 weeks ago:
    low
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    guest from Colorado, United States 1 month ago:
    i have dated someone with low self esteem and believe me DONT PICK OPTION ONE
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    guest from Solola, Guatemala 1 month ago:
    Many girl at my school have low self esteem but are the hottest girls still
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    guest from Missouri, United States 1 month ago:
    Lol cat thinks he's a tiger :0
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    ScarlettRosieBronze Medal from Oregon, United States 1 month ago:
    cocky= is hottie
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    dantesMale from Connecticut, United States 1 month ago:
    Low Self Esteem because u can evetnaly make them gain a higher Self Esteem plus it gives u a chance to help somone
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    guest from Connecticut, United States 1 month ago:
    Low Sellf esteem means u can help them and make them gain a higher
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    guest from Wisconsin, United States 1 month ago:
    I am super critical, I would destroy the poor girl/boy.
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    guest from Florida, United States 1 month ago:
    Cocky is annoying and cant be helped. Low self esteem, however, is cute and can be helped.
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    guest from Sierra Leone 1 month ago:
    I can make em feel bett and i cant stand cocky people
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    guest from Oregon, United States 1 month ago:
    I like a firm hand
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    guest from Delaware, United States 1 month ago:
    cocky, repeat it slowly...
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    guest from Florida, United States 1 month ago:
    i have low self esteem, can cheer each other up because we know how to put our words sweetly
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    guest from Plymouth, United Kingdom 1 month ago:
    Low self-esteem. I mean common cocky is funny but after a while they are just annoying
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    RedSmartieBronze Medal from California, United States 1 month ago:
    Somebody cocky, because I am too and we can both have inflated egos together.
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    guest from Tennessee, United States 1 month ago:
    I'm on top... Remember that
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    guest from Alberta, Canada 1 month ago:
    I have low self esteem so idk
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    XxImaginxXFemaleSilver Medal from Rotherham, United Kingdom 1 month ago:
    :P
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    guest from the United States 1 month ago:
    the low self-esteem seems a little cocky
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    guest from California, United States 1 month ago:
    cheer them up
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    guest 1 month ago:
    cocky :)
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    guest from Brussels Hoofdstedelijk Gewest, Belgium 2 months ago:
    My crush is cocky but if he were low esteem he would be in my arms right now
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    guest from Ohio, United States 2 months ago:
    God, I hate cocky people
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    guest from Texas, United States 2 months ago:
    i'm dating a sorta cocky person. I'd prefer them with a higher esteem or healthy because i don't want to deal with that gay, emo crap
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    guest from New Jersey, United States 2 months ago:
    But how can you say no to Sophia Bush
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    guest from Indiana, United States 2 months ago:
    Saw the cat, didn't read the question
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    guest from Lancashire, United Kingdom 2 months ago:
    i would get it up
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    guest from Warwickshire, United Kingdom 2 months ago:
    I agree with you sir
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    guest from Ontario, Canada 2 months ago:
    Girl looks hot
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    guest from California, United States 2 months ago:
    Low esteem
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    guest from the United States 2 months ago:
    I live bad btchz that's my f ing problem
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    SouthernCookie73Silver MedalBlue Star from Australia 2 months ago:
    You can only build them up
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    guest from Oklahoma, United States 2 months ago:
    Low self esteem means more needy and more emotionally unstable, trust me it's not fun
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    guest from Florida, United States 2 months ago:
    low self -esteem because you could make them feel better and confIdent
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    guest from Wisconsin, United States 3 months ago:
    Low self esteem
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    guest from Indiana, United States 3 months ago:
    I have low self-esteem.
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    guest from New Brunswick, Canada 3 months ago:
    i can rase their self-esteem with my smile and jokes
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    guest from Massachusetts, United States 3 months ago:
    Hanako
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    ripjaw246Silver Medal from the United States 3 months ago:
    low self-esteem= more oppurtunities
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    guest from Canada 3 months ago:
    Low self esteem weighs a relationship down, they need too much
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    guest from Tennessee, United States 3 months ago:
    low self esteem = more sex
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    guest from California, United States 3 months ago:
    I can't stand the self absorbed
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    guest from Arizona, United States 4 months ago:
    Pfffff already do
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    guest from Alaska, United States 4 months ago:
    low self esteem cause they would enjoy my compliments
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    scarfFemaleGold MedalGold TrophySuper Star from British Columbia, Canada 4 months ago:
    I hate cocky people.
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    Mattyboy96MaleBronze Medal from Nevada, United States 4 months ago:
    Already am dating someone with low self-esteem.
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    guest from the United States 4 months ago:
    Well both are super annoying
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    adamcarver95MaleBronze Medal from Washington, United States 4 months ago:
    NO! I read it wrong! I thought it was what you were. Not the person you dated!
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    guest from Utah, United States 4 months ago:
    Oops wrong ine
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    RandiNicole1990FemaleSilver MedalBronze TrophySuper Star from Pennsylvania, United States 4 months ago:
    Cocky men is the BIGGEST turn off for me.
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    guest from Louisiana, United States 4 months ago:
    tc
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    dejiaMaleBronze MedalBlue Star from London, City of, United Kingdom 4 months ago:
    WRONG ONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!111
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    shelbyvagoBronze Medal from Texas, United States 4 months ago:
    Neither?
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    guest from Australia 4 months ago:
    i love penis lol
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    Divasis99 from South Carolina, United States 4 months ago:
    I have this thing where I hate myself but thing I'm better than everybody else
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    awesomemanSilver MedalSuper Star from Tasmania, Australia 4 months ago:
    pitty sex
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    guest from Washington, United States 4 months ago:
    I'm not sure you guys realize this, but being in a relationship with someone who thinks they don't deserve you can be extremely stressful. No matter now much you tell them they are beautiful, they won't believe you. You start to feel like there's nothing you can do to help. Don't get me wrong, being overly cocky is extremely unattractive, but a little confidence goes a long way.
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    guest from Massachusetts, United States 4 months ago:
    low self esteem will make u feel like u can never do enough for them or show them how much you care enough, and make u feel like crap, or theyll be all jealous and annoying
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    H2ikMaleSilver MedalBronze TrophySuper StarSilver Crown from Gauteng, South Africa 4 months ago:
    they're both nightmares -_-
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    guest from Singapore 4 months ago:
    Someone with low self esteem wouldn't even talk to me cuz of their low self esteem. .____
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    the88shrimpMaleSilver MedalBlue Star from Australia 5 months ago:
    Low self-seteem means you could make them feel better
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    xxmcrmyfeverxx from Nevada, United States 5 months ago:
    kitty!
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    guest from Alberta, Canada 5 months ago:
    niether
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    palomabFemaleSilver Medal from Ile-de-France, France 5 months ago:
    Cocky is cute as hell !
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    guest from the United States 5 months ago:
    Dont matter, had sex
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    guest from the United Kingdom 5 months ago:
    Cocky
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    yolo123Bronze Medal from Missouri, United States 5 months ago:
    low sef- estem= stds
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    yolo123Bronze Medal from Missouri, United States 5 months ago:
    someone cocky
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    guest from Kentucky, United States 5 months ago:
    YOU BUILD ME UUUUP SO I CAN STAND ON MOUNTAINS!!!! yep.
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    PhphphbtSilver Medal from California, United States 5 months ago:
    i already am cocky
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    guest from Maine, United States 5 months ago:
    i have a friend who has low self-esteem. I love her to death but... sometimes, i just cant stand how depressing she is.
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    enciteariotBronze MedalBlue Star from Michigan, United States 5 months ago:
    Low self esteem would bring you down but I just emagine a girl that was cocky would just be brave like I can totaly make that jump "at the grandcanyon"
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    guest from Arizona, United States 5 months ago:
    Give them esteem cuz of our hotness
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    guest from North Carolina, United States 5 months ago:
    I Could Help Them feel Better
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    guest from the United States 5 months ago:
    cocky
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    guest from North Carolina, United States 6 months ago:
    Low Self-Esteem.
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    guest from the United States 6 months ago:
    OH MY GOSH! I have that picture hanging in my room! It says "Believe in yourself".
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    guest from Kentucky, United States 6 months ago:
    i dont want to date a kitty