Would you rather date a person with low self-esteem, or someone who is cocky? (By Username Bronze MedalSuper StarBronze Crown 3 years ago)

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137,892 votes
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    2 years ago
    ico +645
    guest from North Carolina, United States
    And help him/her feel better about themself :)
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    2 years ago
    ico +583
    guest from Texas, United States
    low self esteem = more sex
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    16 hours ago
    ico
    guest from New York, United States
    I need someone to match my arrogance, to walk with me hand in hand, matching my stride
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    1 day ago
    ico
    guest from Victoria, Australia
    I can't stand people with low self esteem.
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    4 days ago
    ico
    guest from Massachusetts, United States
    I have has low self esteem for all of my 17 years. I wouldn't wish it on anyone.
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    5 days ago
    ico
    guest from Leicester, United Kingdom
    I have too little self esteem to cope with anyone elses
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    1 week ago
    ico
    harryb2 MaleSilver Medal from Australia
    yes i can change them!!!!!!
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    1 week ago
    ico
    bryanm4 MaleBronze Medal from New York, United States
    Arrogant people are more annoying than flies buzzing in your ear.
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    2 weeks ago
    ico
    guest from the United Kingdom
    In one night I can lift her confidence ;)
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    2 weeks ago
    ico
    guest from New York, United States
    I'm cocky I deserve
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    2 weeks ago
    ico
    guest from Ohio, United States
    Cocky dug
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    3 weeks ago
    ico
    guest from Massachusetts, United States
    Dont get cocky kid.
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    3 weeks ago
    ico
    guest from South Australia, Australia
    Sorry ladies, but when u go on and on about how unattractive you are, well its unattractive and annoying
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    3 weeks ago
    ico
    guest from New Zealand
    That girl with low self esteem is me
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    1 month ago
    ico
    guest from Florida, United States
    Everyone is good at something
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    1 month ago
    ico
    guest from the United States
    I would not care. But I would choose someone that is Cocky. I have so many friends with low self esteem, it's hard to take care of them all at once. As long as he/she cares for me.
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    1 month ago
    ico
    albertw MaleBronze Medal from Noord-Holland, Netherlands
    oops dint read ir right low self i want
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    1 month ago
    ico
    míam FemaleSilver Medal from Buenos Aires, Argentina
    Both are horrible tho
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    1 month ago
    ico
    míam FemaleSilver Medal from Buenos Aires, Argentina
    The people that picked the low self-esteem definitely dont know how hard and frustrating is to help the other one to feel better about itself
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    1 month ago
    ico
    guest from Canterbury, New Zealand
    Low self-esteem people are very very annoying and all they do is complain about how they're not good enough no matter how many times you tell them they are - so sick of people putting themselves down
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    1 month ago
    ico
    taylorb4 FemaleBronze Medal from British Columbia, Canada
    well every time they put them self down ill be right there to cheer them up
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    1 month ago
    ico
    guest from Ohio, United States
    I can make my man feel like a king
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    1 month ago
    ico
    guest from Nebraska, United States
    But I love the pic for cocky
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    1 month ago
    ico
    Cocky can sometimes be hot.
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    1 month ago
    ico
    guest from California, United States
    Cocky because id love to be in a relationship where i could insult them and have them still love me.
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    1 month ago
    ico +1
    guest from Bay of Plenty, New Zealand
    Why does all anyone talk about is more sex? Theres more to a relationship than that..... And if all you want is sex then you dont really love that person only the sex :(
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    1 month ago
    ico
    guest from Northumberland, United Kingdom
    Tomake them feel that they are beautiful
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    1 month ago
    ico
    guest from Ireland
    I meant to click the other 1 -_-
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    1 month ago
    ico
    guest from Arizona, United States
    im actually dating someone with low self esteem and now i regret my vote
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    1 month ago
    ico
    samanthabeab FemaleSilver Medal from California, United States
    Imma rape them
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    1 month ago
    ico
    guest from Nebraska, United States
    CUTE kitty!!!!!!!!
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    1 month ago
    ico
    guest from California, United States
    I would marry that cat... I LOVE CATZ
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    1 month ago
    ico
    gabem2 Male from Oregon, United States
    If a person truly has actual "low-self esteem", it is truly annoying and aggravating even if you build them up as high as anyone can, they will find anything to break themselves down and its a total waste of time
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    1 month ago
    ico
    coltonj MaleBronze Medal from Florida, United States
    I didn't read it right
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    1 month ago
    ico
    jemimaf Female from London, City of, United Kingdom
    low self esteem can be worked with- cockiness cant
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    1 month ago
    ico
    guest from the United Kingdom
    I already am haha
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    1 month ago
    ico
    guest from Europe
    Cat
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    1 month ago
    ico
    jontev Female from North Carolina, United States
    id make em feel better
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from the United States
    I have low self esteem so id date a cocky person to level it out.
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from Texas, United States
    UGHH why didn't i read the whole question..?!? I want to change
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from the United States
    Already do
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from Durham, United Kingdom
    Might as well date someone like u
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    2 months ago
    ico
    madgeundersee FemaleGold MedalSuper Star from Queensland, Australia
    ...2 words: Chuck Bass
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from Cornwall, United Kingdom
    Low self-esteem is often caused by those around the person.
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    2 months ago
    ico
    StarshineM MaleSilver MedalBlue Star from Ohio, United States
    Low self-esteem! I wanna uplift her and make her feel happier!
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from Texas, United States
    So I could help them
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    2 months ago
    ico
    i would make them happy
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from Queensland, Australia
    I already do question a
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    2 months ago
    ico
    A20041214 FemaleBronze Medal from British Columbia, Canada
    i have low self-esteem
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    2 months ago
    ico +1
    guest from Illinois, United States
    my dog is cocky
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from Colorado, United States
    i am dating someone who is cocky lol
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from Pennsylvania, United States
    Hi
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from Arizona, United States
    Gotta go with cocky. I usually would go with low self-esteem but I've been in that for the past 5 years and dealing with it has just gone downhill. :/
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from Derby, United Kingdom
    Gah I read it wrong I thought it said would you rather be :/
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from Ohio, United States
    I would try my best to build up their self-esteem
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    2 months ago
    ico
    That_Girl_Rae_ FemaleSilver Medal from the United States
    low self-esteem= clingy boyfriend. EWW
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from Queensland, Australia
    I'm dating a hot girl with low self esteem. It sucks trust me. She's crazy.
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from South Carolina, United States
    I can make that person feel speical
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    2 months ago
    ico
    TheMiaEllis FemaleSilver Medal from Maryland, United States
    i would raise their self-esteem
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    3 months ago
    ico
    guest from Georgia, United States
    Yeah. Then I'll be in charge. And, every time they'd get a little bold, I'd "remind" them of their place. They'll be like my own little slave thing. Yes! Muahaha! Muahahahahahahahahaha!!! >:D
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    3 months ago
    ico
    guest from California, United States
    I would help them ya can't help a person who is cocky
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    3 months ago
    ico
    guest from North Carolina, United States
    brooke aka sophia bush
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    3 months ago
    ico
    guest from North Carolina, United States
    one tree hilll!!!!!!!!!!
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    3 months ago
    ico
    guest from West Lothian, United Kingdom
    I am quite cocky though
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    3 months ago
    ico
    guest from the United States
    im doing that now!
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    3 months ago
    ico
    guest from California, United States
    cocky is just annoying
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    3 months ago
    ico
    guest from Texas, United States
    How bout neither both are annoying
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    3 months ago
    ico
    Really?
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    4 months ago
    ico
    guest from Texas, United States
    definitely cocky cause I am in love with some one who is cocky right now
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    4 months ago
    ico
    guest from Nordrhein-Westfalen, Germany
    with a duck-complex
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    4 months ago
    ico
    guest from Florida, United States
    Boost their self esteem then bang
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    4 months ago
    ico
    guest from Iowa, United States
    wrong one
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    4 months ago
    ico
    guest from Hawaii, United States
    I want someone sure of themselves. If their sure of them selves their sure of their choices. If they say they love you, their sure of it. People with low self-esteem dont know what they want. Plus they would be too scared to tell you how they truly feel which WILL cause problems.
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    4 months ago
    ico
    guest from Massachusetts, United States
    i dont know which
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    4 months ago
    ico
    guest from Massachusetts, United States
    the 1 who is cocky is a cat so...
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    4 months ago
    ico
    guest from Belfast, United Kingdom
    i agree with guest from north carolina,United states
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    4 months ago
    ico
    guest from Texas, United States
    I can't do either. People with low self-esteem, from what I've experienced, are really annoying when they bluntly express their feelings and complain. Those who do, I mean.
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    4 months ago
    ico
    guest from Illinois, United States
    I only choose Cocky because low self esteem is a horrible thing to wish on anyone.
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    4 months ago
    ico
    guest from Iowa, United States
    I'm good at knocking people off their pedestal. They wouldn't be cocky for long.
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    4 months ago
    ico
    guest from Utah, United States
    Low self esteem sucks to be around
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    4 months ago
    ico
    If they have no self-esteem, you can help them
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    4 months ago
    ico
    guest from Orebro Lan, Sweden
    Confidence is sexy
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    4 months ago
    ico
    guest from Devon, United Kingdom
    all i want to say is the picture for the low self-esteem one is from one tree hill
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    4 months ago
    ico
    FinalScar Bronze Medal from California, United States
    I'd date a girl over a cat that thinks it is a lion
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    4 months ago
    ico
    guest from California, United States
    i can help him feel better, than someone who is too into themselves
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    4 months ago
    ico
    guest
    Low self-esteem gives me a reason to tell that they're beautiful every minute of the day.
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    4 months ago
    ico
    guest from Florida, United States
    i could help the person
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    5 months ago
    ico
    guest from Michigan, United States
    true
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    5 months ago
    ico
    guest from Illinois, United States
    make them feel better and more sex
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    5 months ago
    ico
    guest from Michigan, United States
    I wish my girlfriend had higher self esteem but i make her feel better and thats just the way she is so yah :/
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    5 months ago
    ico +1
    guest from Florida, United States
    I will make them feel beautiful
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    5 months ago
    ico +1
    guest from California, United States
    Person from Texas ... Your an ass hole :P using people when they are weak
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    5 months ago
    ico
    guest from California, United States
    i cant deal with insecure people (i am one myself its just a pity party its disgusting)
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    5 months ago
    ico
    MedicLand MaleBronze MedalBronze Trophy from North Carolina, United States
    i would care and help her low self-esteem
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    5 months ago
    ico
    guest from Colorado, United States
    I'll help her
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    5 months ago
    ico
    guest from Kent, United Kingdom
    like me