Would you rather date a person with low self-esteem, or someone who is cocky? (By Username Bronze MedalSuper StarBronze Crown 2 years ago)

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    1 year ago
    ico +509
    guest from Texas, United States
    low self esteem = more sex
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    1 year ago
    ico +536
    guest from North Carolina, United States
    And help him/her feel better about themself :)
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    1 day ago
    ico
    guest from Florida, United States
    Boost their self esteem then bang
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    2 days ago
    ico
    guest from Iowa, United States
    wrong one
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    3 days ago
    ico
    guest from Hawaii, United States
    I want someone sure of themselves. If their sure of them selves their sure of their choices. If they say they love you, their sure of it. People with low self-esteem dont know what they want. Plus they would be too scared to tell you how they truly feel which WILL cause problems.
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    3 days ago
    ico
    guest from Massachusetts, United States
    i dont know which
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    4 days ago
    ico
    guest from Massachusetts, United States
    the 1 who is cocky is a cat so...
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    5 days ago
    ico
    guest from Belfast, United Kingdom
    i agree with guest from north carolina,United states
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    1 week ago
    ico
    guest from Texas, United States
    I can't do either. People with low self-esteem, from what I've experienced, are really annoying when they bluntly express their feelings and complain. Those who do, I mean.
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    2 weeks ago
    ico
    guest from Illinois, United States
    I only choose Cocky because low self esteem is a horrible thing to wish on anyone.
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    2 weeks ago
    ico
    guest from Iowa, United States
    I'm good at knocking people off their pedestal. They wouldn't be cocky for long.
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    2 weeks ago
    ico
    guest from Utah, United States
    Low self esteem sucks to be around
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    2 weeks ago
    ico
    If they have no self-esteem, you can help them
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    2 weeks ago
    ico
    guest from Orebro Lan, Sweden
    Confidence is sexy
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    2 weeks ago
    ico
    guest from Devon, United Kingdom
    all i want to say is the picture for the low self-esteem one is from one tree hill
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    3 weeks ago
    ico
    FinalScar Bronze Medal from California, United States
    I'd date a girl over a cat that thinks it is a lion
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    3 weeks ago
    ico
    guest from California, United States
    i can help him feel better, than someone who is too into themselves
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    3 weeks ago
    ico
    guest
    Low self-esteem gives me a reason to tell that they're beautiful every minute of the day.
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    3 weeks ago
    ico
    guest from Florida, United States
    i could help the person
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    4 weeks ago
    ico
    guest from Michigan, United States
    true
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    1 month ago
    ico
    guest from Illinois, United States
    make them feel better and more sex
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    1 month ago
    ico
    guest from Michigan, United States
    I wish my girlfriend had higher self esteem but i make her feel better and thats just the way she is so yah :/
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    1 month ago
    ico +1
    guest from Florida, United States
    I will make them feel beautiful
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    1 month ago
    ico +1
    guest from California, United States
    Person from Texas ... Your an ass hole :P using people when they are weak
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    1 month ago
    ico
    guest from California, United States
    i cant deal with insecure people (i am one myself its just a pity party its disgusting)
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    1 month ago
    ico
    MedicLand MaleBronze MedalBronze Trophy from North Carolina, United States
    i would care and help her low self-esteem
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    1 month ago
    ico
    guest from Colorado, United States
    I'll help her
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    1 month ago
    ico
    guest from Kent, United Kingdom
    like me
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    1 month ago
    ico
    guest from Singapore
    Someone with low self-esteem might become clingy for fear of losing you.
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    1 month ago
    ico
    guest from Sutton, United Kingdom
    i dont like cocky ppl
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    1 month ago
    ico
    guest from Ohio, United States
    Who wants to date a rude person? Nothing is wrong with having low self esteem, I would tell him everyday how wonderful he is
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from Ontario, Canada
    doesnt matter had sex
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from Netherlands
    but it gets anoying over time D:, wel low self-esteem brings more sex though..
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from Illinois, United States
    Although I chose someone with low self-esteem, it could get pretty annoying. Hearing "I'm not good enough" 24/7 isn't exactly how I picture a date. Cocky, in a sense, may be better.
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    2 months ago
    ico
    Will777 MaleGold MedalSilver TrophyBlue Star from Texas, United States
    A person with low self-esteem does what others tell them. So teach them to have self-esteem. A cocky person wont lesson to others cause they think they know it all and hurt others with not a care in the world.
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from North Carolina, United States
    I heard cock
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    2 months ago
    ico
    Kitty FemaleSilver MedalBlue Star from Dublin, Ireland
    I could help their self-esteem
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from New Jersey, United States
    Like this if you only pick this cuz it's Brooke Davis from one tree hill
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    2 months ago
    ico
    Jelly_tbh Female from Texas, United States
    low self esteem = i can help him get better and feel good about him self.
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from Maryland, United States
    I'm cocky...and single dangit!
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from Missouri, United States
    no they will all ways down there selfs
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    2 months ago
    ico
    Brittneya4656 FemaleBronze Medal from North Carolina, United States
    low self-esteem cause I know what their going through, but cocky would be sexy. So both even though I chose low self-esteem I really choose both lol
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from New Hampshire, United States
    You can make them feel better plus it's awesome that they used a picture of brook Davis yay one tree hill
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from Louisiana, United States
    I have lower self-esteem than anyone I know.
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    3 months ago
    ico
    guest from Hawaii, United States
    Both can be helped
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    3 months ago
    ico
    guest from Indiana, United States
    My crush has low self-esteem
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    3 months ago
    ico
    guest from Georgia, United States
    Low self esteem means youll always be working to try to make them happy. How can they love you until they love themselves?
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    3 months ago
    ico
    guest from Dumfries and Galloway, United Kingdom
    Being in a relationship with someone with low self esteem is horrible they trash themselves and refuse to believe they are perfect to you. They can also get depressed and self harm. Bullies find them easy targets and that makes it worse. I wish my gf was cocky.
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    3 months ago
    ico
    olivia172562 FemaleSilver Medal from Tennessee, United States
    help them feel better
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    3 months ago
    ico
    olivia172562 FemaleSilver Medal from Tennessee, United States
    help them out :)
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    3 months ago
    ico
    guest from Texas, United States
    36% of people are idiots
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    3 months ago
    ico
    guest from Wisconsin, United States
    just like me
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    3 months ago
    ico
    dawsond MaleBronze Medal from California, United States
    I already am with someone with low self esteem so HA!
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    3 months ago
    ico
    austinm3 MaleBronze Medal from British Columbia, Canada
    we would be the same
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    3 months ago
    ico
    imaniy FemaleBronze Medal from California, United States
    Someone Who Cocky Can Get A Foot Where The Sun Dont Shine Lmaoo
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    3 months ago
    ico
    guest from Kentucky, United States
    if some one had low self esteem you could help them
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    3 months ago
    ico
    guest from Arkansas, United States
    Am I the only girl who likes cocky guys?
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    4 months ago
    ico
    guest from Connecticut, United States
    I have low self-esteem and I'm dating someone who's cocky... I'd much rather date someone with low self-esteem, we can both feel bad and make each other feel better together... :)
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    4 months ago
    ico
    reneediva FemaleGold MedalSuper Star from Maryland, United States
    cocky to be with me when i leave you drop
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    4 months ago
    ico
    guest from North Carolina, United States
    II SHALL HELP THEM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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    4 months ago
    ico
    guest from Minnesota, United States
    I would've totally chosen low self-esteem if it was not for that picture with the lion! I laughed so hard!
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    4 months ago
    ico
    guest from Texas, United States
    omg!!!!! that cocky picture is the picture on a poster at school!!!!!!!
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    4 months ago
    ico
    guest from Colorado, United States
    arg ppl are perverts when it comes to these questions >=(
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    4 months ago
    ico
    yoyoyoitsmia Silver Medal from Glasgow City, United Kingdom
    i could raise the self esteem
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    4 months ago
    ico
    guest from Alberta, Canada
    If you're not willing to boost her esteem for her, you shouldn't be a boyfriend.
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    4 months ago
    ico
    guest from Oregon, United States
    I'm sure that I could use this for more sex.
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    4 months ago
    ico
    guest from Tokyo, Japan
    cocky = low self-esteem
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    4 months ago
    ico
    guest from Louisiana, United States
    pacey witer was cocky but look what happened to him and joey
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    4 months ago
    ico
    mepedyMEPmeppymep Silver MedalSuper Star from Massachusetts, United States
    I already like someone with low self esteem..
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    5 months ago
    ico
    guest from Missouri, United States
    Girls with low self-esteem arer the most annoying b*tches on the planet.
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    5 months ago
    ico
    guest from Luton, United Kingdom
    I'd rather they were cocky and happy than insecure and sad
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    5 months ago
    ico
    hankyull MaleGold MedalSuper Star from Ontario, Canada
    Someone with low self-esteem would feel a lot better if she was dating me!!
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    5 months ago
    ico +1
    03Saira FemaleGold Medal from Rhode Island, United States
    uggh too much to deal with on both ends..
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    5 months ago
    ico
    guest from Tennessee, United States
    I can fix his low self esteem for em ;)
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    5 months ago
    ico
    MagicWatermelon FemaleGold MedalBlue Star from Utah, United States
    Cocky people are annoying as F**k
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    5 months ago
    ico
    guest from Alberta, Canada
    u discuss me
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    5 months ago
    ico
    guest from Quebec, Canada
    I hate cocky people. Having low self-esteem isn't the person's fault and isn't necessarily a bad quality.
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    5 months ago
    ico
    guest from Saudi Arabia
    More s3x
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    5 months ago
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    salruby Bronze Medal from New South Wales, Australia
    i hate showoffs.
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    6 months ago
    ico
    guest from Arizona, United States
    I would help them :)
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    6 months ago
    ico
    Cockiness is unattractive.
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    6 months ago
    ico
    guest from Iceland
    :) My girlfriend has low self-esteem and I love her very much.
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    6 months ago
    ico
    guest from Pennsylvania, United States
    SEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEX
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    6 months ago
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    guest from Minnesota, United States
    B. Davis (;
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    6 months ago
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    guest from North Carolina, United States
    one tree hill!!!!!!! and cute pic on the right!!!
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    6 months ago
    ico
    guest from New York, United States
    I've done both. It's frustrating to date someone with low self-esteem. They typically want you to constantly reassure them. Confidence is sexy!
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    6 months ago
    ico
    psychokid MaleBronze Medal from Queensland, Australia
    raise them up until they feel awesome
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    6 months ago
    ico
    guest from Quebec, Canada
    this 1 was tricky cause hate people who is low self-estime and same sh*t 4 cocky
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    6 months ago
    ico
    guest from Florida, United States
    Low self-esteem means down to Earth and real, cocky is annoying!!
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    6 months ago
    ico
    guest from Texas, United States
    you guys do know what low self-esteem means right??
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    6 months ago
    ico
    guest from Western Australia, Australia
    i love that cat picture where did you get it
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    6 months ago
    ico
    guest from Hampshire, United Kingdom
    High self esteem = better sex
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    7 months ago
    ico
    guest from New York, United States
    I could make u do anything u want because ill be the best thing u have ^^ lol
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    7 months ago
    ico
    guest from Maine, United States
    That cat attracted my mouse.
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    7 months ago
    ico
    guest from Oregon, United States
    help her stay happy
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    7 months ago
    ico
    guest from Bulgaria
    and raise their self-esteem :)
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    7 months ago
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    guest from Indiana, United States
    im already low self-esteem. We'd have it good :D
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    7 months ago
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    guest from the United States
    woops wrong click
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    7 months ago
    ico
    guest from New South Wales, Australia
    i'd comfort them