Would you rather date a person with low self-esteem, or someone who is cocky? (By Username Bronze MedalSuper StarBronze Crown 3 years ago)

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    2 years ago
    ico +808
    guest from North Carolina, United States
    And help him/her feel better about themself :)
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    2 years ago
    ico +665
    guest from Texas, United States
    low self esteem = more sex
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    16 hours ago
    ico
    guest from New York, United States
    U can fix self esteem
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    2 days ago
    ico
    guest from Canada
    I'm cocky too. we could be cocky together. "Damn, I look good"
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    3 days ago
    ico
    xDusk MaleBronze Medal from the United States
    Arrogance is the most disgusting thing in this world to me.
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    5 days ago
    ico
    guest from Ohio, United States
    I'd raise there self esteem. Also i dont want to date a jackass
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    5 days ago
    ico
    guest from the United States
    Confidence is attractive
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    6 days ago
    ico
    guest from Massachusetts, United States
    Our personalities would bounce off each other, so I could teach them a lesson in modesty and they could help me stand up for myself. Everybody wins!
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    1 week ago
    ico
    guest from Hounslow, United Kingdom
    CUNT FLAPS
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    1 week ago
    ico
    guest from Canada
    in a funny joking way, I suppose. if not the other choice, since I'm not so great at cheering up people.
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    1 week ago
    ico
    xjustme FemaleBronze Medal from T'ai-wan, Taiwan
    cocky can be hot.
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    2 weeks ago
    ico
    guest from Virginia, United States
    Low self esteem=im not good at sex, i should prsctice more
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    2 weeks ago
    ico
    guest from Buzau, Romania
    I can make a LOT more compliments to her
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    2 weeks ago
    ico
    guest from Guernsey
    I'd help them feel better about themselves...
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    2 weeks ago
    ico
    guest from Ontario, Canada
    I could build you up I can show what u want to see and take u where u want 2 be
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    3 weeks ago
    ico
    guest from Ontario, Canada
    Cause then i can tell him good things about him self
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    3 weeks ago
    ico
    guest from Australia
    I have low self esteem...
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    3 weeks ago
    ico
    guest from North Carolina, United States
    I choose cocky cuz I don't want to have low self esteem because low self esteem people have a better chance at doing drugs and having a bad life
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    3 weeks ago
    ico
    Bogy MaleGold MedalSilver TrophySuper Star from Texas, United States
    I could help them with that
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    4 weeks ago
    ico
    guest from the United States
    self esteem equals trys to get better
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    4 weeks ago
    ico
    guest from Oregon, United States
    I could help them make a better image of themselves
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    1 month ago
    ico
    ryryrulesrock FemaleGold Medal from Wyoming, United States
    I would encourage them!
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    1 month ago
    ico
    guest from Finland
    I would date a cockey guy because he would feel like nothing compared to me
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    1 month ago
    ico
    guest from Australia
    If u chose low self esteem it means ur weak minded yourself and have a lot of awful insecurities!!
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    1 month ago
    ico
    briannas2 FemaleSilver Medal from Tennessee, United States
    I can have a reason to punch them.
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    1 month ago
    ico
    http://www.rrrather.com/user/profile from Michigan, United States
    ive done it its not good they are not always honest and well......death thoughts and actions
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    1 month ago
    ico
    guest from Virginia, United States
    Meant to click other one
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    1 month ago
    ico
    guest from Louisiana, United States
    I don't want to have a pity party for my girlfriend all day
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    1 month ago
    ico
    meowrychan Gold MedalSuper Star from Virginia, United States
    I have low enough self-esteem for the both of us. We don't need to be dragging each other down. A cocky person would handle my self esteem issues better. And a person who has low self-esteem would just drag me down, more so. I know, from experience!
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    1 month ago
    ico
    guest from Colorado, United States
    I would just dump the cocky person
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    1 month ago
    ico
    guest from Washington, United States
    wrong one what does cocky even mean
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    1 month ago
    ico
    hollisterjane Silver Medal from Hampshire, United Kingdom
    Low self-esteem is built up when they fall in love.
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    1 month ago
    ico
    Angelus235 MaleGold MedalBlue Star from New York, United States
    Have sex with them
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    1 month ago
    ico
    nickd MaleSilver Medal from New York, United States
    wed have something in common
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    1 month ago
    ico
    guest from Western Australia, Australia
    Laugh at their stupidity
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    1 month ago
    ico
    guest from Arizona, United States
    i like the picture on the right
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    1 month ago
    ico
    guest from the United Kingdom
    You can try and change their minds. anyway, if someone dates them and they think they're not pretty, obviously the partner does!
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    1 month ago
    ico
    guest from the United States
    I want someone who will make me laugh. Someone who is cocky will make me laugh a lot.
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    1 month ago
    ico
    guest from Bratislava, Slovakia
    I chose the wrong one accidentally
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    1 month ago
    ico
    guest from the United Kingdom
    YOU CAN COMFORT THEM! DUUH imagine: you:"awww honey you look so beautiful!" your spouse: "YEAH, WAAYY BETTER THAN YOU!"
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    1 month ago
    ico
    guest from California, United States
    Low self esteem would get annoying after a while.
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    1 month ago
    ico
    guest from Greece
    we can work on that
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    1 month ago
    ico
    guest from Utah, United States
    I'd rather endure someone constantly bragging about how awesome they are than someone constantly whining about how terrible they are.
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    1 month ago
    ico
    kyles8 MaleSilver Medal from the United States
    *COCKy*
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    1 month ago
    ico
    guest from Oregon, United States
    I like the pic of Cocky chose
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    1 month ago
    ico
    I'd help them
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from the United States
    I would tell him?her that they are beautiful in every singlr shape or form
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from the United States
    idk
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from Manchester, United Kingdom
    More Sex for me.
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from Michigan, United States
    JUST LIKE ME
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    2 months ago
    ico +1
    martio Female from the United States
    One Tree Hill
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from Massachusetts, United States
    My crush is both
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from Victoria, Australia
    Cocky is really funny
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    2 months ago
    ico
    Flyingmintbunny16 FemaleSilver Medal from the United States
    I can't stand it when people are cocky.
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from Massachusetts, United States
    Picture of the cat won me over
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from Virginia, United States
    Being the person with low self-esteem, I can't have another downer.
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    2 months ago
    ico
    I wouldn't help them but I am good at humbling people
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    2 months ago
    ico +1
    guest from Minnesota, United States
    I would rather date Brooke Davis than a cat
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from Wisconsin, United States
    you cant be in love with someone whos cocky their in love with their selfs
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from Indiana, United States
    The lowest self esteem possible is nice to date. McDs is classy to them
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from District of Columbia, United States
    Skip
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from South Australia, Australia
    I can cheer them up and make them feel good :)
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from the United States
    id tell her she is beautiful everyday
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from Idaho, United States
    Would much rather date someone who is humble rather than arrogant.
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    3 months ago
    ico
    giannaj FemaleSilver MedalBlue Star from California, United States
    I find peoples' low self-esteem cute
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    3 months ago
    ico
    oddreeelizabeth Bronze Medal from Maine, United States
    I would love them lots
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    3 months ago
    ico
    guest from Wisconsin, United States
    neither
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    3 months ago
    ico
    Popas MaleBronze Medal from Setubal, Portugal
    because they are easy to manipulate
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    3 months ago
    ico
    Sakura FemaleBronze Medal from the United States
    I'll tell them how beautiful/handsome they are every day cx
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    3 months ago
    ico
    guest from Ireland
    I would bild up there self easteem
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    3 months ago
    ico
    guest from Kentucky, United States
    amen
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    3 months ago
    ico
    guest from Texas, United States
    dump them hahaha
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    3 months ago
    ico
    Frankie Gold MedalBlue Star from Colorado, United States
    We could relate more.
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    3 months ago
    ico
    guest from Nevada, United States
    I had someone with low self esteem or confidence. It's annoying. I want someone confident.
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    3 months ago
    ico
    guest from Arizona, United States
    Can't have two with low self esteem in this relationship.
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    3 months ago
    ico
    guest from Western Australia, Australia
    I would help boost their self-esteem
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    3 months ago
    ico
    guest from the United States
    crap i didn't read the question
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    3 months ago
    ico
    guest from Arizona, United States
    i just picked Brook Davis because she is a good actor
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    3 months ago
    ico
    guest from Florida, United States
    Let's make people Happy :)
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    4 months ago
    ico
    exiioticl MaleBronze Medal from California, United States
    low self esteem girls are the best! they do anal :D
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    4 months ago
    ico
    guest from New Mexico, United States
    the pic looked cute
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    4 months ago
    ico
    Confuse_me MaleSilver MedalBronze TrophyBlue Star from California, United States
    That picture of the cat though, it cracks me up.
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    4 months ago
    ico
    guest from Utah, United States
    You're insecure! Don't know what for!
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    4 months ago
    ico
    --Kylee-- FemaleGold MedalBronze TrophySuper Star from Illinois, United States
    Guest from texas...Your a Dick...Seriously you dont know how hard it is with low self-esteem
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    4 months ago
    ico
    guest from Washington, United States
    Sounds so bad, but I love dating girls with low self esteem....
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    4 months ago
    ico
    stephenc2 MaleBronze Medal from Nebraska, United States
    low self esteem gets obnoxious faster than cockiness
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    4 months ago
    ico
    guest from Pennsylvania, United States
    This Chios was %99.99999999 picture
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    4 months ago
    ico
    Aw_Potatoess Female from Australia
    But what if I have a low self-esteem.
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    4 months ago
    ico
    guest from Austria
    i would make them awesomeeeeee!!!!
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    5 months ago
    ico
    guest from London, City of, United Kingdom
    Sex
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    5 months ago
    ico
    Scarecrow113 MaleSilver MedalBlue Star from Virginia, United States
    I like a tough guy.
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    5 months ago
    ico
    guest from New York, United States
    I need someone to match my arrogance, to walk with me hand in hand, matching my stride
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    5 months ago
    ico
    guest from Victoria, Australia
    I can't stand people with low self esteem.
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    5 months ago
    ico
    guest from Massachusetts, United States
    I have has low self esteem for all of my 17 years. I wouldn't wish it on anyone.
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    5 months ago
    ico
    guest from Leicester, United Kingdom
    I have too little self esteem to cope with anyone elses
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    5 months ago
    ico
    harryb2 MaleSilver Medal from Australia
    yes i can change them!!!!!!
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    5 months ago
    ico
    bryanm4 MaleBronze Medal from New York, United States
    Arrogant people are more annoying than flies buzzing in your ear.