Would you rather date a person with low self-esteem, or someone who is cocky? (By Username Bronze MedalSuper StarBronze Crown 3 years ago)

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    2 years ago
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    guest from North Carolina, United States
    And help him/her feel better about themself :)
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    2 years ago
    ico +606
    guest from Texas, United States
    low self esteem = more sex
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    1 day ago
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    guest from District of Columbia, United States
    Skip
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    1 day ago
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    guest from South Australia, Australia
    I can cheer them up and make them feel good :)
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    2 days ago
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    guest from the United States
    id tell her she is beautiful everyday
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    2 days ago
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    guest from Idaho, United States
    Would much rather date someone who is humble rather than arrogant.
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    6 days ago
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    giannaj FemaleSilver Medal from California, United States
    I find peoples' low self-esteem cute
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    6 days ago
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    oddreeelizabeth Bronze Medal from Maine, United States
    I would love them lots
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    1 week ago
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    guest from Wisconsin, United States
    neither
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    2 weeks ago
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    Popas MaleBronze Medal from Setubal, Portugal
    because they are easy to manipulate
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    2 weeks ago
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    Sakura FemaleBronze Medal from the United States
    I'll tell them how beautiful/handsome they are every day cx
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    2 weeks ago
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    guest from Ireland
    I would bild up there self easteem
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    3 weeks ago
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    guest from Kentucky, United States
    amen
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    3 weeks ago
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    guest from Texas, United States
    dump them hahaha
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    3 weeks ago
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    Frankie Gold MedalBlue Star from Colorado, United States
    We could relate more.
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    3 weeks ago
    ico
    guest from Nevada, United States
    I had someone with low self esteem or confidence. It's annoying. I want someone confident.
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    3 weeks ago
    ico
    guest from Arizona, United States
    Can't have two with low self esteem in this relationship.
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    3 weeks ago
    ico
    guest from Western Australia, Australia
    I would help boost their self-esteem
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    1 month ago
    ico
    guest from the United States
    crap i didn't read the question
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    1 month ago
    ico
    guest from Arizona, United States
    i just picked Brook Davis because she is a good actor
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    1 month ago
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    guest from Florida, United States
    Let's make people Happy :)
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    1 month ago
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    exiioticl MaleBronze Medal from California, United States
    low self esteem girls are the best! they do anal :D
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    1 month ago
    ico
    guest from New Mexico, United States
    the pic looked cute
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    1 month ago
    ico
    Confuse_me FemaleSilver MedalBronze TrophyBlue Star from California, United States
    That picture of the cat though, it cracks me up.
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    1 month ago
    ico
    guest from Utah, United States
    You're insecure! Don't know what for!
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    1 month ago
    ico
    --Kylee-- FemaleSilver MedalBlue Star from Illinois, United States
    Guest from texas...Your a Dick...Seriously you dont know how hard it is with low self-esteem
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    1 month ago
    ico
    guest from Washington, United States
    Sounds so bad, but I love dating girls with low self esteem....
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    1 month ago
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    stephenc2 MaleBronze Medal from Nebraska, United States
    low self esteem gets obnoxious faster than cockiness
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    1 month ago
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    guest from Pennsylvania, United States
    This Chios was %99.99999999 picture
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    1 month ago
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    Aw_Potatoess Female from Australia
    But what if I have a low self-esteem.
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from Austria
    i would make them awesomeeeeee!!!!
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from London, City of, United Kingdom
    Sex
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    2 months ago
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    Scarecrow113 MaleSilver MedalBlue Star from Virginia, United States
    I like a tough guy.
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from New York, United States
    I need someone to match my arrogance, to walk with me hand in hand, matching my stride
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from Victoria, Australia
    I can't stand people with low self esteem.
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from Massachusetts, United States
    I have has low self esteem for all of my 17 years. I wouldn't wish it on anyone.
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from Leicester, United Kingdom
    I have too little self esteem to cope with anyone elses
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    2 months ago
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    harryb2 MaleSilver Medal from Australia
    yes i can change them!!!!!!
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    2 months ago
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    bryanm4 MaleBronze Medal from New York, United States
    Arrogant people are more annoying than flies buzzing in your ear.
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from the United Kingdom
    In one night I can lift her confidence ;)
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from New York, United States
    I'm cocky I deserve
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from Ohio, United States
    Cocky dug
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from Massachusetts, United States
    Dont get cocky kid.
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    3 months ago
    ico
    guest from South Australia, Australia
    Sorry ladies, but when u go on and on about how unattractive you are, well its unattractive and annoying
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    3 months ago
    ico
    guest from New Zealand
    That girl with low self esteem is me
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    3 months ago
    ico
    guest from Florida, United States
    Everyone is good at something
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    3 months ago
    ico
    guest from the United States
    I would not care. But I would choose someone that is Cocky. I have so many friends with low self esteem, it's hard to take care of them all at once. As long as he/she cares for me.
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    3 months ago
    ico
    albertw MaleBronze Medal from Noord-Holland, Netherlands
    oops dint read ir right low self i want
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    3 months ago
    ico
    míam FemaleSilver Medal from Buenos Aires, Argentina
    Both are horrible tho
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    3 months ago
    ico
    míam FemaleSilver Medal from Buenos Aires, Argentina
    The people that picked the low self-esteem definitely dont know how hard and frustrating is to help the other one to feel better about itself
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    3 months ago
    ico
    guest from Canterbury, New Zealand
    Low self-esteem people are very very annoying and all they do is complain about how they're not good enough no matter how many times you tell them they are - so sick of people putting themselves down
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    3 months ago
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    taylorb4 FemaleBronze Medal from British Columbia, Canada
    well every time they put them self down ill be right there to cheer them up
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    3 months ago
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    guest from Ohio, United States
    I can make my man feel like a king
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    3 months ago
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    guest from Nebraska, United States
    But I love the pic for cocky
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    3 months ago
    ico
    Cocky can sometimes be hot.
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    3 months ago
    ico
    guest from California, United States
    Cocky because id love to be in a relationship where i could insult them and have them still love me.
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    3 months ago
    ico +1
    guest from Bay of Plenty, New Zealand
    Why does all anyone talk about is more sex? Theres more to a relationship than that..... And if all you want is sex then you dont really love that person only the sex :(
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    3 months ago
    ico
    guest from Northumberland, United Kingdom
    Tomake them feel that they are beautiful
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    3 months ago
    ico
    guest from Ireland
    I meant to click the other 1 -_-
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    3 months ago
    ico
    guest from Arizona, United States
    im actually dating someone with low self esteem and now i regret my vote
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    4 months ago
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    samanthabeab FemaleSilver MedalBlue Star from California, United States
    Imma rape them
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    4 months ago
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    guest from Nebraska, United States
    CUTE kitty!!!!!!!!
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    4 months ago
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    guest from California, United States
    I would marry that cat... I LOVE CATZ
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    4 months ago
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    gabem2 Male from Oregon, United States
    If a person truly has actual "low-self esteem", it is truly annoying and aggravating even if you build them up as high as anyone can, they will find anything to break themselves down and its a total waste of time
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    4 months ago
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    coltonj MaleBronze Medal from Florida, United States
    I didn't read it right
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    4 months ago
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    jemimaf Female from London, City of, United Kingdom
    low self esteem can be worked with- cockiness cant
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    4 months ago
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    guest from the United Kingdom
    I already am haha
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    4 months ago
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    guest from Europe
    Cat
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    4 months ago
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    jontev Female from North Carolina, United States
    id make em feel better
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    4 months ago
    ico
    guest from the United States
    I have low self esteem so id date a cocky person to level it out.
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    4 months ago
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    guest from Texas, United States
    UGHH why didn't i read the whole question..?!? I want to change
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    4 months ago
    ico
    guest from the United States
    Already do
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    4 months ago
    ico
    guest from Durham, United Kingdom
    Might as well date someone like u
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    4 months ago
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    madgeundersee FemaleGold MedalSuper Star from Queensland, Australia
    ...2 words: Chuck Bass
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    4 months ago
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    guest from Cornwall, United Kingdom
    Low self-esteem is often caused by those around the person.
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    4 months ago
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    StarshineM MaleSilver MedalBlue Star from Ohio, United States
    Low self-esteem! I wanna uplift her and make her feel happier!
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    4 months ago
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    guest from Texas, United States
    So I could help them
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    4 months ago
    ico
    i would make them happy
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    4 months ago
    ico
    guest from Queensland, Australia
    I already do question a
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    4 months ago
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    A20041214 FemaleBronze Medal from British Columbia, Canada
    i have low self-esteem
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    4 months ago
    ico +1
    guest from Illinois, United States
    my dog is cocky
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    4 months ago
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    guest from Colorado, United States
    i am dating someone who is cocky lol
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    4 months ago
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    guest from Pennsylvania, United States
    Hi
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    4 months ago
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    guest from Arizona, United States
    Gotta go with cocky. I usually would go with low self-esteem but I've been in that for the past 5 years and dealing with it has just gone downhill. :/
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    4 months ago
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    guest from Derby, United Kingdom
    Gah I read it wrong I thought it said would you rather be :/
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    5 months ago
    ico
    guest from Ohio, United States
    I would try my best to build up their self-esteem
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    5 months ago
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    That_Girl_Rae_ FemaleSilver Medal from the United States
    low self-esteem= clingy boyfriend. EWW
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    5 months ago
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    guest from Queensland, Australia
    I'm dating a hot girl with low self esteem. It sucks trust me. She's crazy.
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    5 months ago
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    guest from South Carolina, United States
    I can make that person feel speical
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    5 months ago
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    TheMiaEllis FemaleSilver Medal from Maryland, United States
    i would raise their self-esteem
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    5 months ago
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    guest from Georgia, United States
    Yeah. Then I'll be in charge. And, every time they'd get a little bold, I'd "remind" them of their place. They'll be like my own little slave thing. Yes! Muahaha! Muahahahahahahahahaha!!! >:D
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    5 months ago
    ico
    guest from California, United States
    I would help them ya can't help a person who is cocky
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    5 months ago
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    guest from North Carolina, United States
    brooke aka sophia bush
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    5 months ago
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    guest from North Carolina, United States
    one tree hilll!!!!!!!!!!
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    5 months ago
    ico
    guest from West Lothian, United Kingdom
    I am quite cocky though
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    5 months ago
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    guest from the United States
    im doing that now!