When you have a crush on someone Would you rather Try to Go out with him/her rapidly (first weeks) or Wait to get to know him/her better and fell in love before.?

When you have a crush on someone Would you rather By POpCoRn Gold Medal Silver Trophy Super Star Diamond Gold Crown 1 year ago

Try to Go out with him/her rapidly (first weeks)

OR

28,583 votes
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Wait to get to know him/her better and fell in love before.

love, relationships, true love

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guest from Sao Paulo, Brazil 1 year ago:

75% are getting friendzoned.
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deathbyTARDIS Female Bronze Medal Super Star from Kentucky, United States 1 year ago:

My boyfriend and I were friends long before we ever started dating, and now, everything's so natural. It's not forced, and it's just beautiful.
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dpratt8 Bronze Medal from Maine, United States 1 day ago:

My girlfriend and I went from strangers to enemies to being in love. All it took was time.
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guest from Tennessee, United States 1 week ago:

I asked out a girl freshman year after knowing her for only two weeks. We are now engaged and rarely even argue.
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Tberr Male Gold Medal Bronze Trophy Super Star from Colorado, United States 2 weeks ago:

I look at it this way, yes you can know someone better. but it doesnt mean they act the same way towards bf/gf than they do with their friends. so it is better to know how they are like as bf/gfs than actual friends.
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guest from Montana, United States 3 weeks ago:

Dont wanna be friendzones
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guest from Redbridge, United Kingdom 4 weeks ago:

Sexy bog sexy big sexy big sexy big tits
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guest from Florida, United States 1 month ago:

I did Option B and I didn't get friend-zoned.
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guest from Georgia, United States 1 month ago:

You Gotta Take Em Quick Or Someone Else Will!
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guest from California, United States 1 month ago:

First
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guest from Wisconsin, United States 2 months ago:

Go out while u can!!
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MarilynKnows Female Gold Medal Super Star from Maryland, United States 3 months ago:

Yeah...doing this since September
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airenk Male Silver Medal from Oregon, United States 3 months ago:

plz sign my pettion for Joey and Rachel...WHAT 10 YEARS!
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guest from North Carolina, United States 4 months ago:

NO! THIS IS PATRICK!
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guest from Georgia, United States 4 months ago:

Im stuck in the frenemy zone :'( not my choice!!!
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guest from Tennessee, United States 4 months ago:

Took time and we are exactly alike! We even hate the same people! O-O
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guest from Virginia, United States 4 months ago:

Friend zone losers
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guest from California, United States 5 months ago:

both
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guest from California, United States 5 months ago:

calm down juliet, we get u met yo romeo
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guest from Massachusetts, United States 6 months ago:

I would just go for it what's the worst they say no go find someone else and suck it up
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guest from Victoria, Australia 6 months ago:

Don't get friend zoned...it hurts...P.S I'm not a guy..I'm just saying to prove guys are not the only ones to get friend zoned....
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guest from Virginia, United States 6 months ago:

,,
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guest from Indiana, United States 6 months ago:

Get to now
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guest from Oregon, United States 6 months ago:

friend zone is better than a bad zone.
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guest from Virginia, United States 6 months ago:

BOOOOO
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guest from Ohio, United States 6 months ago:

its better to get to no them
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guest from California, United States 7 months ago:

get in get out
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guest from California, United States 7 months ago:

wait
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babbydoll15 Female Bronze Medal from Texas, United States 7 months ago:

ya if u play the cords right maybe she wants tio get to now u more
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kitkat Female Bronze Medal from Indiana, United States 7 months ago:

wait
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guest from New York, United States 7 months ago:

you could get to know them while dating
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guest from Maryland, United States 7 months ago:

i got out of the friend zone
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guest from Ohio, United States 7 months ago:

Crush= i think youre cute and funny so get to know them first.
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guest from New York, United States 8 months ago:

You gotta study man dont care what you say you have to be prepared (non sexually speaking)
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guest from United States 8 months ago:

My Fiance and i Got together within a few weeks of meeting each other
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guest from Illinois, United States 8 months ago:

this is probably a cock-block
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guest from Puerto Rico 8 months ago:

I rather just have sex... lol ;)
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guest from Illinois, United States 9 months ago:

idgi
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guest from North Carolina, United States 9 months ago:

Slow and steady wins the race. Exept in bed
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tasham Female Silver Medal Blue Star from California, United States 9 months ago:

Go on dates and get to know them :D best way to go
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kenziel from Washington, United States 9 months ago:

me And my girl knew each other for 10 mins before dating...:)
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halo3man585 Male Bronze Medal from California, United States 9 months ago:

Friend zone happens 100% of the choice on the right
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guest from Florida, United States 9 months ago:

Brazilian already knows
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guest from Ontario, Canada 9 months ago:

that's the reason i have a crush
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guest from Indiana, United States 10 months ago:

friend zoned
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guest from Maryland, United States 10 months ago:

the second one is the best way to get in the friend zone
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guest from Noord-Holland, Netherlands 10 months ago:

Story of my life :)
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guest from Michigan, United States 10 months ago:

Love hurts.
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guest from Missouri, United States 10 months ago:

Well u mite get in friendzone
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iloverobert Female Silver Medal from Suffolk, United Kingdom 10 months ago:

a bit like bella and edward did in twilight
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guest from Hertford, United Kingdom 10 months ago:

2nd 1 as its a bit like what edward and bella did in twilight!!!!
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guest from Ohio, United States 10 months ago:

errgggggg i ment get to know ughh
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guest from Texas, United States 10 months ago:

know them first
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katiec44 Female Bronze Medal from Ohio, United States 11 months ago:

i pick the first choice
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guest from United States 11 months ago:

w
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guest from Montana, United States 11 months ago:

Do it rapid and expect to get a dump text
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guest from Arizona, United States 11 months ago:

rapidly! youll have time to get to know em
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Abbiekat Female Gold Medal Super Star from Michigan, United States 11 months ago:

Wait. That way you can figure out if you really like them or if you are just attracted to them.
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Shinigami Female Gold Medal Silver Trophy Super Star from Florida, United States 11 months ago:

Some of you guys are liars xDD
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guest from Texas, United States 1 year ago:

YOLO!!!!!
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guest from California, United States 1 year ago:

Y.O.L.O You Obviously Lack Originality
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guest from North Carolina, United States 11 months ago:

yontstfu
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iliketoeat Bronze Medal Bronze Trophy Super Star from Connecticut, United States 1 year ago:

I always end up friend zoning a guy if we don't make it official
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guest from Michigan, United States 1 year ago:

We could go rapidly :)
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guest from British Columbia, Canada 1 year ago:

tried the first one. wouldn't recommend it
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guest from Wisconsin, United States 1 year ago:

true but idk im not... too lazy to wait
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guest from Minnesota, United States 1 year ago:

i may be quick but i slow down and try to know them first heh heh
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guest from Wisconsin, United States 1 year ago:

im not evil
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guest from Florida, United States 1 year ago:

The best part of a relationship is finding out about the person I always say...
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guest from California, United States 1 year ago:

Horny bastards
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American Gold Medal Super Star from Florida, United States 1 year ago:

we'll get to know eachother in the morning....i promise.
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guest from Ontario, Canada 1 year ago:

LOL LMFAO
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karim Female Bronze Medal Blue Star from Wisconsin, United States 1 year ago:

i tried the go out repeatedly..DOES NOT WORK
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insaneforlife Female Silver Medal Super Star from Arizona, United States 1 year ago:

23% are horny hos or desperate
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guest from Texas, United States 1 year ago:

dont want to fall in love. GO HARD OR GO HOME
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guest from California, United States 1 year ago:

GET TO NO HIM
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guest from California, United States 1 year ago:

so...you like breadsticks?
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RatherThisRatherThat Male Gold Medal Bronze Trophy Super Star Bronze Crown from New York, United States 1 year ago:

I got stuck in the friendzone too many times
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solb Male Bronze Medal Super Star from Warrington, United Kingdom 1 year ago:

it would be awkward
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ReedVilla Bronze Medal Super Star from Texas, United States 1 year ago:

Are you dumb? It would be alot more awk dating someone you dont know. ID10T
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Thesequestionsrgross Female Silver Medal Bronze Trophy Super Star from Florida, United States 1 year ago:

It's ALOT more awkward dating your bestfriend! Been there, done that.
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guest from United States 1 year ago:

Never get stuck in the friend zone!
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guest from New York, United States 8 months ago:

Never have a happy relationship
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guest from Oklahoma, United States 7 months ago:

Never waste our time with a dumb post again.
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jaredc Male Gold Medal Silver Trophy Super Star from Pennsylvania, United States 6 months ago:

jus cause you rush into things doesnt mean your both a-holes to each other
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deathbyTARDIS Female Bronze Medal Super Star from Kentucky, United States 1 year ago:

My boyfriend and I were friends long before we ever started dating, and now, everything's so natural. It's not forced, and it's just beautiful.
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guest from Quebec, Canada 9 months ago:

How did he get out of the friendzone?
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guest from Ohio, United States 9 months ago:

yea i agree with quebec here so riddle me that batman
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Jenex Male Gold Medal Bronze Trophy Super Star from California, United States 4 months ago:

dude you have the best username ever
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guest from the United Kingdom 1 week ago:

Your boyfriend is a boss for getting out the friendzone
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marinojesse Silver Medal Super Star from Ontario, Canada 1 year ago:

Every girlfriend I've had has been a friend before hand and I haven't regretted it once!