Would you rather be in a relationship where you were (By guest from the United States  2 years ago)

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112,047 votes
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1,514 votes
37.7%
62.3%
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1,473 votes
20.9%
79.1%
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109,060 votes
27.24%
72.76%

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3 votes
100%
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1 vote
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    2 years ago
    ico +696
    guest from Louisiana, United States
    I'm a guy. I could just slap her back.
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    1 year ago
    ico +454
    guest from West Sussex, United Kingdom
    he only wanted a high five...
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    5 days ago
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    Krognos Bronze Medal from Virginia, United States
    If you were cheated on there's nothing you could do but be mad, if you were beaten you could send them to jail for abuse
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    5 days ago
    ico
    guest from the United States
    Neither!!!
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    6 days ago
    ico
    guest from Kentucky, United States
    GUYS ARE IN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIPS ALL THE TIME JUST BECAUSE YOU ARE MALE DOES NOT MEAN YOU ARE IMMUNE TO AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP!!
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    6 days ago
    ico
    guest from Ohio, United States
    S and M
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    6 days ago
    ico
    guest from Devon, United Kingdom
    If a girl punched me she would regret it (I'm a man)
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    1 week ago
    ico
    guest from Wakefield, United Kingdom
    I cud get over it
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    2 weeks ago
    ico
    guest from Kentucky, United States
    cheated on
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    2 weeks ago
    ico
    guest from Germany
    I'm a girl. I could just slap him back.
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    2 weeks ago
    ico
    guest from New Hampshire, United States
    Because I would leave as soon as it happened with a 0% chance of stds.
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    2 weeks ago
    ico
    guest from Queensland, Australia
    No body ever said the beating was painful or non consensual ;)
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    2 weeks ago
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    Frankie Gold MedalBlue Star from Colorado, United States
    I would just leave if either happened.
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    3 weeks ago
    ico
    guest from Region Metropolitana, Chile
    It could be funny, because all the relationships that is have been are with people weaker than me. I'm a girl
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    3 weeks ago
    ico
    guest from the United States
    im a black belt in tae kwon do i would beat that dude up
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    3 weeks ago
    ico
    Killjoy1234321 MaleBronze Medal from Manitoba, Canada
    right back at ya
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    1 month ago
    ico
    guest from Western Finland, Finland
    i love a chick who can kick my ass.
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    1 month ago
    ico
    Confuse_me FemaleSilver MedalBronze TrophyBlue Star from California, United States
    That's hilarious@guest from UK
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    1 month ago
    ico
    greekaphinaun MaleBronze Medal from Wisconsin, United States
    I would have to choose cheated on, because I'm a guy and that b*tch can't slap me. I'll f*cking roundhouse kick that ho.
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    1 month ago
    ico
    guest from Minnesota, United States
    Self-defense.
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    1 month ago
    ico
    guest from California, United States
    Interesting stereotypes... This is why I love having people know how much physical, mental strength I have
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    1 month ago
    ico
    guest from Massachusetts, United States
    sassy asss slap
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    1 month ago
    ico
    guest from Texas, United States
    I like pain.
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    1 month ago
    ico
    12ericab Bronze Medal from Hertford, United Kingdom
    i'd just beat the guy back.
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    1 month ago
    ico
    MianyRheniumHaha Bronze Medal from the United States
    I'm a sharp person. Literally. Elbow to the rib from me and they'll be SO sorry.
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    1 month ago
    ico
    Zoeill FemaleSilver MedalBlue Star from Ontario, Canada
    Dear people who are saying "I'm a guy" women abuse too!
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    1 month ago
    ico
    Zoeill FemaleSilver MedalBlue Star from Ontario, Canada
    Deaf people saying "I',
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    1 month ago
    ico
    guest from Austria
    ma friends would be all up in his grill....
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    1 month ago
    ico
    guest from British Columbia, Canada
    imagine that your wife was a ragin supersaiyen
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    1 month ago
    ico
    guy777 from the United States
    beaten off ;)
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    1 month ago
    ico
    guest from South Australia, Australia
    i'd always wanted to slap someone. if someone cheated on me i'd slap them into a bloody pulp.
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    1 month ago
    ico
    guest from California, United States
    I've BEEN cheated on, and I've BEEN beaten. Cheated on is easier to handle.
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    1 month ago
    ico
    guest from South Australia, Australia
    Beaten...IN A GAME!XD
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from Michigan, United States
    Dominatrix
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    2 months ago
    ico
    Matryoshka FemaleGold MedalBlue Star from New York, United States
    Physical pain is better than psychological pain.
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from Hertford, United Kingdom
    Neither
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    2 months ago
    ico
    JacksonSomethingson Silver Medal from New South Wales, Australia
    this question....
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from Georgia, United States
    this is really disrespectful
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from Nevada, United States
    If she tried to beat me i will slap her because I'm a guy
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from the United Kingdom
    Get their ass arrested
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    2 months ago
    ico
    Stuck_in_Reverse Bronze Medal from Wisconsin, United States
    Only slap your significant other if you're slapping that booty.
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from Michigan, United States
    "Hey you wanna play of a video game?" "No man you always beat me..." "TELL NO ONE!" Asdfmovie FTW!
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    2 months ago
    ico +2
    guest from California, United States
    Jesus that was hard. But I wouldn't be a pussy and stay with him. Break up with that dude as soon as possible
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    2 months ago
    ico +1
    guest from California, United States
    For those saying "I'm a guy", that would only make things worse. You hit her back, and in most instances, if she reports you, you will be the one getting in trouble.
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from New York, United States
    That's not funny women right now are getting brutally beaten and you think that's funny
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from South Australia, Australia
    To all those men who are saying that they are a guy and that you would just "slap her back", there are many cases of domestic abuse where it's the men being hurt. What is she was carrying a weapon like a bat or a kitchen utensil or even a knife? Would you still be laughing?
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from Texas, United States
    Lol ima guy
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from Washington, United States
    Kinky..
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    2 months ago
    ico
    Loveme14 from the United States
    Just cuss the woman slaps u that gives no right for you to slap her back
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from the United States
    yuuuup
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from Ohio, United States
    I'm can just kick him in the balls and poke him in the eyeballs
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from Virginia, United States
    I could kick his butt back this time with pepper spray
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    2 months ago
    ico
    Andret92 MaleBronze Medal from Massachusetts, United States
    I'm a masochist.
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from Illinois, United States
    U guys r selfless
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from Kansas, United States
    at super smash bros
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    3 months ago
    ico
    guest from Indiana, United States
    I could figure out a way to get the bastard back.
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    3 months ago
    ico
    guest from Bahrain
    I'm a guy so I don't care if she beats me, I think its sexy.
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    3 months ago
    ico
    wendyh FemaleBronze Medal from South Dakota, United States
    At least if he cheated on me, I wouldn't be scared to leave him
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    3 months ago
    ico
    guest from Washington, United States
    I'm a guy...
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    3 months ago
    ico
    guest from Ohio, United States
    Anybody who would abuse someone that loves you so much is a total duck head
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    3 months ago
    ico
    Synthotic Silver Medal from New York, United States
    I'd get beaten at a board game... all cheated on in that game- which is why I lost. =P
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    3 months ago
    ico
    Thecatjedi51 MaleBronze Medal from Mississippi, United States
    Meat
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    3 months ago
    ico
    Thecatjedi51 MaleBronze Medal from Mississippi, United States
    I'm a guy id like her to beat my met
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    3 months ago
    ico
    guest from the United States
    Who would wat to be beaten
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    3 months ago
    ico
    guest from Kirklees, United Kingdom
    if i truly loved someone, i couldnt stand being cheated on
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    3 months ago
    ico
    guest from Guanajuato, Mexico
    My gf beating me? That will be hot!
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    3 months ago
    ico
    guest from California, United States
    I would so not want to be beaten. I've seen my dad slap my stepmom across the face and beat her and I'm scarred for life.
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    3 months ago
    ico
    guest from New South Wales, Australia
    That's not what girls should get a slap girls deserve respect not getting beaten
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    3 months ago
    ico
    guest from Florida, United States
    I don't care. I am a girl and my dads a cop. Any guy mess with me, they going to get tazers
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    3 months ago
    ico
    Lucky_Jinx Silver Medal from the United States
    I'd kill the monster either way, or just cut off his "pride" :3 and burn it
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    3 months ago
    ico
    guest from Ohio, United States
    Wow guys, shame for abuse =,=
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    3 months ago
    ico
    jacobd5 MaleSilver Medal from Montana, United States
    If some chick hits me, I don't give a crap about their position, I'm hitting back.
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    4 months ago
    ico
    Neela Silver Medal from Texas, United States
    so i can leave
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    4 months ago
    ico
    guest from Essex, United Kingdom
    I would rather be cheated on
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    4 months ago
    ico
    tophthegirl FemaleBronze Medal from Victoria, Australia
    I would kick his sorry little ass
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    4 months ago
    ico
    guest from New Hampshire, United States
    How about neither?
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    4 months ago
    ico
    guest from Nebraska, United States
    I was beaten last night
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    4 months ago
    ico
    guest from Slovenia
    trust me i would punch you back...
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    4 months ago
    ico
    Giggles FemaleBronze Medal from Rhode Island, United States
    It's better to be hurt inside than out.
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    4 months ago
    ico
    are they staring at a wall?
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    4 months ago
    ico
    guest from Texas, United States
    Double penetration time
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    4 months ago
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    Zoe-Mellor FemaleSilver MedalBlue Star from the United States
    Neither cut if I had to choose it would be cheated on
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    4 months ago
    ico
    guest from Washington, United States
    I took physical abuse as a child. Emotional damage stays a lot longer.
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    4 months ago
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    hittywoo Silver Medal from North Carolina, United States
    Call the police
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    4 months ago
    ico
    guest from Australian Capital, Australia
    im a girl id beat him back
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    4 months ago
    ico
    guest from California, United States
    If you are guy then no you cannot hit back at all.
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    4 months ago
    ico
    guest from Auckland, New Zealand
    Atleast they would love me.
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    4 months ago
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    guest from Canada
    3some.
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    4 months ago
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    laneybuggg from the United States
    I have already been cheated on so it doesnt really matter
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    4 months ago
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    GiantWolf16 Male from the United Kingdom
    Thats a nice wall on TV tonight!