Would you rather be in a relationship where you were (By guest from the United States  2 years ago)

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112,913 votes
932 comments

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Guys
1,525 votes
37.6%
62.4%
Girls
1,486 votes
20.9%
79.1%
Unknowns
109,902 votes
27.2%
72.8%

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27%
73%
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26%
74%
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24%
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29%
71%
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24%
76%
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36%
64%
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26%
74%
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885 votes
39%
61%
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657 votes
24%
76%
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616 votes
39%
61%
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562 votes
34%
66%
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479 votes
30%
70%
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23%
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389 votes
26%
74%
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379 votes
28%
72%
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363 votes
35%
65%
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332 votes
33%
67%
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313 votes
26%
74%
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309 votes
28%
72%
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300 votes
30%
70%
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289 votes
36%
64%
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235 votes
29%
71%
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221 votes
34%
66%
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205 votes
25%
75%
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204 votes
24%
76%
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197 votes
32%
68%
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196 votes
30%
70%
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179 votes
28%
72%
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154 votes
32%
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152 votes
26%
74%
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151 votes
25%
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145 votes
26%
74%
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143 votes
39%
61%
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142 votes
27%
73%
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139 votes
28%
72%
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133 votes
20%
80%
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124 votes
27%
73%
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113 votes
32%
68%
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112 votes
28%
72%
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31%
69%
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108 votes
30%
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107 votes
33%
67%
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100 votes
30%
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95 votes
36%
64%
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24%
76%
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86 votes
40%
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25%
75%
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81 votes
31%
69%
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75 votes
21%
79%
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73 votes
25%
75%
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24%
76%
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67 votes
34%
66%
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64 votes
42%
58%
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64 votes
31%
69%
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63 votes
27%
73%
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58 votes
36%
64%
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53 votes
11
89%
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51 votes
41%
59%
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51 votes
37%
63%
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50 votes
40%
60%
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47 votes
21%
79%
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47 votes
21%
79%
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45 votes
29%
71%
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20%
80%
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43 votes
21%
79%
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40%
60%
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41 votes
29%
71%
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38 votes
37%
63%
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36 votes
33%
67%
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35 votes
20%
80%
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34 votes
24%
76%
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33 votes
33%
67%
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32 votes
38%
62%
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32 votes
19%
81%
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31 votes
19%
81%
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31 votes
39%
61%
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30 votes
17%
83%
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30 votes
23%
77%
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29 votes
24%
76%
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29 votes
34%
66%
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26 votes
54%
46%
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22 votes
27%
73%
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22 votes
27%
73%
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20 votes
35%
65%
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19 votes
47%
53%
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19 votes
21%
79%
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19 votes
26%
74%
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18 votes
22%
78%
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17 votes
41%
59%
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16 votes
13
87%
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16 votes
31%
69%
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94%
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16 votes
19%
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15 votes
27%
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14 votes
29%
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14 votes
29%
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14 votes
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13 votes
38%
62%
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13 votes
8
92%
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12 votes
17%
83%
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11 votes
18%
82%
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11 votes
9
91%
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11 votes
9
91%
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10 votes
100%
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10 votes
20%
80%
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10 votes
40%
60%
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10 votes
10
90%
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10 votes
30%
70%
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10 votes
30%
70%
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9 votes
33%
67%
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9 votes
33%
67%
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9 votes
44%
56%
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8 votes
63%
37%
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8 votes
38%
62%
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8 votes
25%
75%
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7 votes
14%
86%
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7 votes
57%
43%
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7 votes
29%
71%
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6 votes
17%
83%
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6 votes
83%
17%
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6 votes
17%
83%
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100%
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17%
83%
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20%
80%
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80%
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100%
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5 votes
40%
60%
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5 votes
60%
40%
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5 votes
40%
60%
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5 votes
60%
40%
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4 votes
75%
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4 votes
25%
75%
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50%
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4 votes
50%
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4 votes
50%
50%
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4 votes
25%
75%
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4 votes
50%
50%
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4 votes
100%
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4 votes
25%
75%
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4 votes
50%
50%
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3 votes
33%
67%
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3 votes
100%
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3 votes
33%
67%
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3 votes
33%
67%
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3 votes
100%
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3 votes
33%
67%
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2 votes
50%
50%
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2 votes
50%
50%
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2 votes
50%
50%
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2 votes
100%
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2 votes
50%
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100%
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2 votes
100%
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2 votes
50%
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1 vote
100%
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1 vote
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1 vote
100%
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1 vote
100%
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1 vote
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1 vote
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1 vote
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1 vote
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1 vote
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1 vote
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1 vote
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1 vote
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    2 years ago
    ico +700
    guest from Louisiana, United States
    I'm a guy. I could just slap her back.
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    1 year ago
    ico +459
    guest from West Sussex, United Kingdom
    he only wanted a high five...
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    2 days ago
    ico
    guest from California, United States
    I've been in a physically abusive relationship. it's not fun to joke about and it's psychologically tormenting. Please think about how the things you say could effect others before you say them.
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    2 days ago
    ico
    guest from Florida, United States
    in my religion u cant divorce the person u are married to unless they are cheating so if the guy i was marry beats me i will have to run instead :p
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    2 days ago
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    DGrimreaperD from West Sussex, United Kingdom
    Ugh, Women can beat up men too. If I was cheated on /beaten I would get revenge...I suppose cheating on someone is easier than doing something illegal..
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    5 days ago
    ico
    meatyfan53 MaleSilver Medal from Iowa, United States
    Im a guy and Id pimp slap her if she hit me
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    6 days ago
    ico
    guest from New Jersey, United States
    Never underestimate girls like me when they are angry...
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    1 week ago
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    Krognos Bronze Medal from Virginia, United States
    If you were cheated on there's nothing you could do but be mad, if you were beaten you could send them to jail for abuse
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    1 week ago
    ico
    guest from the United States
    Neither!!!
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    1 week ago
    ico +1
    guest from Kentucky, United States
    GUYS ARE IN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIPS ALL THE TIME JUST BECAUSE YOU ARE MALE DOES NOT MEAN YOU ARE IMMUNE TO AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP!!
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    1 week ago
    ico
    guest from Ohio, United States
    S and M
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    1 week ago
    ico
    guest from Devon, United Kingdom
    If a girl punched me she would regret it (I'm a man)
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    2 weeks ago
    ico
    guest from Wakefield, United Kingdom
    I cud get over it
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    3 weeks ago
    ico
    guest from Kentucky, United States
    cheated on
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    3 weeks ago
    ico
    guest from Germany
    I'm a girl. I could just slap him back.
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    3 weeks ago
    ico
    guest from New Hampshire, United States
    Because I would leave as soon as it happened with a 0% chance of stds.
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    3 weeks ago
    ico
    guest from Queensland, Australia
    No body ever said the beating was painful or non consensual ;)
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    3 weeks ago
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    Frankie Gold MedalBlue Star from Colorado, United States
    I would just leave if either happened.
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    4 weeks ago
    ico
    guest from Region Metropolitana, Chile
    It could be funny, because all the relationships that is have been are with people weaker than me. I'm a girl
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    1 month ago
    ico
    guest from the United States
    im a black belt in tae kwon do i would beat that dude up
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    1 month ago
    ico
    Killjoy1234321 MaleBronze Medal from Manitoba, Canada
    right back at ya
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    1 month ago
    ico
    guest from Western Finland, Finland
    i love a chick who can kick my ass.
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    1 month ago
    ico
    Confuse_me FemaleSilver MedalBronze TrophyBlue Star from California, United States
    That's hilarious@guest from UK
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    1 month ago
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    greekaphinaun MaleBronze Medal from Wisconsin, United States
    I would have to choose cheated on, because I'm a guy and that b*tch can't slap me. I'll f*cking roundhouse kick that ho.
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    1 month ago
    ico
    guest from Minnesota, United States
    Self-defense.
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    1 month ago
    ico
    guest from California, United States
    Interesting stereotypes... This is why I love having people know how much physical, mental strength I have
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    1 month ago
    ico
    guest from Massachusetts, United States
    sassy asss slap
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    1 month ago
    ico
    guest from Texas, United States
    I like pain.
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    1 month ago
    ico
    12ericab Bronze Medal from Hertford, United Kingdom
    i'd just beat the guy back.
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    1 month ago
    ico
    MianyRheniumHaha Bronze Medal from the United States
    I'm a sharp person. Literally. Elbow to the rib from me and they'll be SO sorry.
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    2 months ago
    ico
    Zoeill FemaleSilver MedalBlue Star from Ontario, Canada
    Dear people who are saying "I'm a guy" women abuse too!
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    2 months ago
    ico
    Zoeill FemaleSilver MedalBlue Star from Ontario, Canada
    Deaf people saying "I',
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from Austria
    ma friends would be all up in his grill....
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from British Columbia, Canada
    imagine that your wife was a ragin supersaiyen
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guy777 from the United States
    beaten off ;)
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from South Australia, Australia
    i'd always wanted to slap someone. if someone cheated on me i'd slap them into a bloody pulp.
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from California, United States
    I've BEEN cheated on, and I've BEEN beaten. Cheated on is easier to handle.
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from South Australia, Australia
    Beaten...IN A GAME!XD
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from Michigan, United States
    Dominatrix
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    2 months ago
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    Matryoshka FemaleGold MedalBlue Star from New York, United States
    Physical pain is better than psychological pain.
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from Hertford, United Kingdom
    Neither
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    2 months ago
    ico
    JacksonSomethingson Silver Medal from New South Wales, Australia
    this question....
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from Georgia, United States
    this is really disrespectful
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from Nevada, United States
    If she tried to beat me i will slap her because I'm a guy
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from the United Kingdom
    Get their ass arrested
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    2 months ago
    ico
    Stuck_in_Reverse Bronze Medal from Wisconsin, United States
    Only slap your significant other if you're slapping that booty.
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from Michigan, United States
    "Hey you wanna play of a video game?" "No man you always beat me..." "TELL NO ONE!" Asdfmovie FTW!
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    2 months ago
    ico +2
    guest from California, United States
    Jesus that was hard. But I wouldn't be a pussy and stay with him. Break up with that dude as soon as possible
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    2 months ago
    ico +1
    guest from California, United States
    For those saying "I'm a guy", that would only make things worse. You hit her back, and in most instances, if she reports you, you will be the one getting in trouble.
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from New York, United States
    That's not funny women right now are getting brutally beaten and you think that's funny
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from South Australia, Australia
    To all those men who are saying that they are a guy and that you would just "slap her back", there are many cases of domestic abuse where it's the men being hurt. What is she was carrying a weapon like a bat or a kitchen utensil or even a knife? Would you still be laughing?
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from Texas, United States
    Lol ima guy
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from Washington, United States
    Kinky..
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    2 months ago
    ico
    Loveme14 from the United States
    Just cuss the woman slaps u that gives no right for you to slap her back
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from the United States
    yuuuup
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from Ohio, United States
    I'm can just kick him in the balls and poke him in the eyeballs
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    3 months ago
    ico
    guest from Virginia, United States
    I could kick his butt back this time with pepper spray
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    3 months ago
    ico
    Andret92 MaleBronze Medal from Massachusetts, United States
    I'm a masochist.
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    3 months ago
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    guest from Illinois, United States
    U guys r selfless
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    3 months ago
    ico
    guest from Kansas, United States
    at super smash bros
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    3 months ago
    ico
    guest from Indiana, United States
    I could figure out a way to get the bastard back.
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    3 months ago
    ico
    guest from Bahrain
    I'm a guy so I don't care if she beats me, I think its sexy.
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    3 months ago
    ico
    wendyh FemaleBronze Medal from South Dakota, United States
    At least if he cheated on me, I wouldn't be scared to leave him
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    3 months ago
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    guest from Washington, United States
    I'm a guy...
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    3 months ago
    ico
    guest from Ohio, United States
    Anybody who would abuse someone that loves you so much is a total duck head
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    3 months ago
    ico
    Synthotic Silver Medal from New York, United States
    I'd get beaten at a board game... all cheated on in that game- which is why I lost. =P
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    3 months ago
    ico
    Thecatjedi51 MaleBronze Medal from Mississippi, United States
    Meat
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    3 months ago
    ico
    Thecatjedi51 MaleBronze Medal from Mississippi, United States
    I'm a guy id like her to beat my met
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    3 months ago
    ico
    guest from the United States
    Who would wat to be beaten
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    3 months ago
    ico
    guest from Kirklees, United Kingdom
    if i truly loved someone, i couldnt stand being cheated on
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    3 months ago
    ico
    guest from Guanajuato, Mexico
    My gf beating me? That will be hot!
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    4 months ago
    ico
    guest from California, United States
    I would so not want to be beaten. I've seen my dad slap my stepmom across the face and beat her and I'm scarred for life.
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    4 months ago
    ico
    guest from New South Wales, Australia
    That's not what girls should get a slap girls deserve respect not getting beaten
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    4 months ago
    ico
    guest from Florida, United States
    I don't care. I am a girl and my dads a cop. Any guy mess with me, they going to get tazers
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    4 months ago
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    Lucky_Jinx Silver Medal from the United States
    I'd kill the monster either way, or just cut off his "pride" :3 and burn it
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    4 months ago
    ico
    guest from Ohio, United States
    Wow guys, shame for abuse =,=
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    4 months ago
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    jacobd5 MaleSilver Medal from Montana, United States
    If some chick hits me, I don't give a crap about their position, I'm hitting back.
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    4 months ago
    ico
    Neela Silver Medal from Texas, United States
    so i can leave
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    4 months ago
    ico
    guest from Essex, United Kingdom
    I would rather be cheated on
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    4 months ago
    ico
    tophthegirl FemaleBronze Medal from Victoria, Australia
    I would kick his sorry little ass
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    4 months ago
    ico
    guest from New Hampshire, United States
    How about neither?
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    4 months ago
    ico
    guest from Nebraska, United States
    I was beaten last night
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    4 months ago
    ico
    guest from Slovenia
    trust me i would punch you back...
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    4 months ago
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    Giggles FemaleBronze Medal from Rhode Island, United States
    It's better to be hurt inside than out.
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    4 months ago
    ico
    are they staring at a wall?
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    4 months ago
    ico
    guest from Texas, United States
    Double penetration time
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    4 months ago
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    Zoe-Mellor FemaleSilver MedalBlue Star from the United States
    Neither cut if I had to choose it would be cheated on
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    4 months ago
    ico
    guest from Washington, United States
    I took physical abuse as a child. Emotional damage stays a lot longer.
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    4 months ago
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    hittywoo Silver Medal from North Carolina, United States
    Call the police