Would you rather be in a relationship where you were (By guest   2 years ago)

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Guys
1,263 votes
37.9%
62.1%
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1,251 votes
22.2%
77.8%
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89,923 votes
28.05%
71.95%

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25%
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983 votes
36%
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28%
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39%
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26%
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34%
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35%
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26%
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29%
71%
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177 votes
26%
74%
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29%
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34%
66%
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162 votes
23%
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33%
67%
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26%
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39%
61%
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31%
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121 votes
19%
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22%
78%
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27%
73%
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98 votes
33%
67%
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27%
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33%
67%
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93 votes
30%
70%
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93 votes
34%
66%
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88 votes
31%
69%
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88 votes
28%
72%
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77 votes
38%
62%
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73 votes
41%
59%
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31%
69%
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66 votes
23%
77%
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24%
76%
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62 votes
26%
74%
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59 votes
22%
78%
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54 votes
37%
63%
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53 votes
32%
68%
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50 votes
26%
74%
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48 votes
40%
60%
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48 votes
38%
62%
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43 votes
37%
63%
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41 votes
12
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41 votes
39%
61%
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40 votes
43%
57%
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24%
76%
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38 votes
18%
82%
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24%
76%
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37%
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33 votes
30%
70%
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32 votes
34%
66%
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32 votes
34%
66%
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32 votes
22%
78%
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29 votes
41%
59%
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29 votes
38%
62%
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28 votes
21%
79%
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28 votes
14%
86%
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31%
69%
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25 votes
24%
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25 votes
24%
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24 votes
25%
75%
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5
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19 votes
53%
47%
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21%
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18 votes
22%
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18 votes
33%
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17 votes
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29%
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25%
75%
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38%
62%
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56%
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31%
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Morocco
14 votes
29%
71%
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36%
64%
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12 votes
100%
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25%
75%
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12 votes
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12 votes
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83%
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11 votes
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11 votes
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10 votes
30%
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33%
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44%
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9 votes
33%
67%
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13
87%
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8 votes
25%
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8 votes
100%
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7 votes
43%
57%
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29%
71%
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7 votes
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71%
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6 votes
17%
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6 votes
33%
67%
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6 votes
67%
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6 votes
100%
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100%
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5 votes
20%
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80%
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40%
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20%
80%
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50%
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4 votes
50%
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4 votes
25%
75%
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3 votes
100%
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3 votes
33%
67%
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3 votes
100%
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3 votes
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1 vote
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    1 year ago
    ico +612
    guest from Louisiana, United States
    I'm a guy. I could just slap her back.
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    1 year ago
    ico +310
    guest from West Sussex, United Kingdom
    he only wanted a high five...
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    14 hours ago
    ico
    guest from Victoria, Australia
    @shady you being sexist?
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    1 week ago
    ico
    guest from California, United States
    guys are typical
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    1 week ago
    ico
    moncherri FemaleBronze Medal from Beau Vallon, Seychelles
    I'd prefer you cheat on me than beat me.the day he lays his hand on me I pack up and one of us is leaving.hs
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    1 week ago
    ico
    guest from California, United States
    jackasses
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    1 week ago
    ico
    guest from California, United States
    guys are total
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    2 weeks ago
    ico
    guest from Illinois, United States
    Im too cute to get beat on
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    2 weeks ago
    ico
    guest from Germany
    im a guy
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    2 weeks ago
    ico
    I would never hit a girl
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    2 weeks ago
    ico
    guest from Kirklees, United Kingdom
    hit her back
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    2 weeks ago
    ico
    guest from California, United States
    i wouldnt be heartbroken
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    2 weeks ago
    ico
    guest from Texas, United States
    Y'all who chose being beaten are sick. Especially you who say you would fight back, or who think its funny.
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    2 weeks ago
    ico
    guest from the United States
    You can get them arrested for abuseing you but you can't have them arrested for cheating on you...
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    2 weeks ago
    ico
    datmanydocris MaleGold MedalBlue Star from District of Columbia, United States
    I would like to see her try. XD
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    3 weeks ago
    ico
    guest from Indiana, United States
    PAIN!
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    3 weeks ago
    ico
    guest from South Africa
    Neither because my parents got divorced because of cheating and I get beaten sometimes so no thank you
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    3 weeks ago
    ico
    guest from Louisiana, United States
    I wouldn't like to get beaten that hurts
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    3 weeks ago
    ico
    guest from Missouri, United States
    Then I would beat the sh*t out of him after he was done
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    4 weeks ago
    ico
    guest from Virginia, United States
    Lol I could beat the guy up if he tried beating me easily, but I don't want to go to jail for murder or assult so I chose the other one (Im a female bodybuilder)
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    1 month ago
    ico
    guest from Michigan, United States
    Beaten off that is ;)
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    1 month ago
    ico
    jordane MaleBronze MedalBlue Star from the United Kingdom
    im guy that would be kinky
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    1 month ago
    ico
    guest from Pennsylvania, United States
    You can just leave if he hits you. Being cheated on can mentally damage a person and make it bad on the next relationship.
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    1 month ago
    ico
    TheBat MaleBronze Medal from New South Wales, Australia
    Just cheat on me instead of staying with me and beating me.
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    1 month ago
    ico
    guest from Western Australia, Australia
    What you don't know can't hurt you
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    1 month ago
    ico
    Hunter Silver Medal from Maryland, United States
    I know some judo. Just TRY to touch me and you'll be sorry.
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    1 month ago
    ico
    guest from Oregon, United States
    neither
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    1 month ago
    ico
    Lopedo MaleBronze Medal from Noord-Holland, Netherlands
    mental pain is much worse
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    1 month ago
    ico
    guest from California, United States
    I actually didn't want to vote for either.
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    1 month ago
    ico
    guest from Noord-Brabant, Netherlands
    Oh yeah spank me hard
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    1 month ago
    ico
    guest from Alabama, United States
    I am a guy, so I could take the beating
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    1 month ago
    ico
    guest from Hong Kong
    i cud leave the guy who cheated on me, but if i try to leave the guy who beats me, then probably he will beat me more and never let go of me.
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    1 month ago
    ico
    guest from the United Kingdom
    Hey that rhymes :o
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    1 month ago
    ico
    guest from the United Kingdom
    When I found out he was cheating I'd be the one beating
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    1 month ago
    ico
    guest from Sutton, United Kingdom
    BEAT THE CRAP OUT OF THE MAN WHO THINKS HE CAN BEAT ME UP :D i do boxing, im a girl lol
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    1 month ago
    ico
    guest from Ohio, United States
    I would break up with him either way but I would rather be cheated on.
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    1 month ago
    ico
    zache MaleBronze Medal from Arkansas, United States
    care to much about others feelings
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from London, City of, United Kingdom
    ID BEAT THE CRAP OUT THAT FKING ASSWHOLE OF A SO CALLED MAN HES NOT A MAN HES A MOUSE HITTING A WOMAN PFFT!
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from California, United States
    Who says I can't hit him back harder? :3
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from British Columbia, Canada
    If I got cheated on let's just say he won't c out of one or both of his eyes until the swellings gone
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from California, United States
    Just pull out my shotgun....he'll never mess with me again!
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    2 months ago
    ico
    jasminel FemaleBronze Medal from Maine, United States
    neither
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from South Dakota, United States
    I've known people who were beaten by there lived ones. It's messed up what they have to go through getting stabbed or punched every day and worry for you life even after you dump them or just dump the person that cheated on you... plus being abused is physically and mentally painful where cheated is just mental painful and has no scars to remind you daily of what happened to you
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from Vermont, United States
    I was taught how to fight back boys! So watch IT!!
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    2 months ago
    ico
    Will777 MaleGold MedalSilver TrophyBlue Star from Texas, United States
    I'm single
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    2 months ago
    ico
    RoyalKateXD FemaleSilver Medal from Pennsylvania, United States
    Then you call the cops on that mother f**ker
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    2 months ago
    ico
    guest from Louisiana, United States
    It hurts less, and easier to walk away from.
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    3 months ago
    ico
    guest from Maryland, United States
    i like it rough
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    3 months ago
    ico
    tripwire42 Silver Medal from Connecticut, United States
    I like when my girl beats me, the rougher she is the better the sex
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    3 months ago
    ico
    guest from Dublin, Ireland
    id hug her round arms so she couldent move
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    3 months ago
    ico
    guest from California, United States
    I'm a guy so I chose beaten.
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    3 months ago
    ico
    guest from Saudi Arabia
    I can fight back
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    3 months ago
    ico
    guest from Texas, United States
    I'd prefer to not be a little BITCH.
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    3 months ago
    ico
    jeremyg MaleBronze Medal from Ohio, United States
    physical pain is easier to handle than emotional pain
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    3 months ago
    ico
    myennr FemaleBronze Medal from California, United States
    All I wanna say is, they would not get away with it...
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    3 months ago
    ico
    guest from Queensland, Australia
    Never mind i'll find someone like yooouuuu
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    3 months ago
    ico
    guest from Minnesota, United States
    Just because your a guy doesn't mean you are necessarily stronger. What if they were like a black belt in martial arts?
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    3 months ago
    ico
    olivia172562 FemaleSilver Medal from Tennessee, United States
    I would hit him, so...
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    3 months ago
    ico
    guest from Philippines
    It's better to be hurt outside than to be hurt inside.
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    3 months ago
    ico
    guest from Wisconsin, United States
    im 13
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    3 months ago
    ico
    guest from Illinois, United States
    . . Y
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    4 months ago
    ico
    guest from Hlavni mesto Praha, Czech Republic
    high five!
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    4 months ago
    ico
    guest from Texas, United States
    just cause your a guy does not mean you can beat them and it would not be funny i would just walk away
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    4 months ago
    ico
    michaelab FemaleBronze Medal from Alberta, Canada
    i could kick ass right back, then i have all my guys friends to kick his ass again! haha
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    4 months ago
    ico
    guest from Illinois, United States
    The beatings would be in bed. ;)
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    4 months ago
    ico
    guest from Indiana, United States
    Okay... because guys can't be beaten in a relatonship
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    5 months ago
    ico
    SporeTheSaiyan MaleGold MedalBlue Star from Florida, United States
    I'm a guy. And also, Why do people always think that all men are cheating prone? Open your eyes people!
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    5 months ago
    ico
    guest from Florida, United States
    Already been cheated on so yeah
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    5 months ago
    ico
    hankyull MaleGold MedalSuper Star from Ontario, Canada
    Beaten by a chick? It'd probably be more of a playful thing I guess xD
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    5 months ago
    ico
    bluetie006 MaleBronze Medal from California, United States
    Why is this a question?
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    5 months ago
    ico
    guest from Texas, United States
    I have an easier time just leaving someone who cheated on me. I mean, I would still leave if I was beaten. It's just that the other person wouldn't be going anywhere. So to avoid a criminal record...
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    5 months ago
    ico
    guest from Arkansas, United States
    Fight back! I'm a girl who can pack a punch!
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    5 months ago
    ico
    03Saira FemaleGold Medal from Rhode Island, United States
    I'm a chick so um noo da fudge i'd kick him
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    5 months ago
    ico
    guest from Texas, United States
    I'm a guy. Being beaten by a girl sounds kinky lol
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    5 months ago
    ico
    guest from Alabama, United States
    I could win in a fight against a 18year old, I got dis!
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    5 months ago
    ico
    guest from the United States
    You can break up with the person. When there cheating you wouldn't know until yoou figured out
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    5 months ago
    ico
    LosVider MaleSilver Medal from South Carolina, United States
    Why is that group of friends staring at a wall?
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    5 months ago
    ico
    wtf o_o ones being physically hit and the other is being mentally hit
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    5 months ago
    ico
    guest from Saudi Arabia
    Hahah WTF me
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    5 months ago
    ico
    guest from Florida, United States
    at least I wouldn't be hurt physically...
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    5 months ago
    ico
    guest from Florida, United States
    i think physical is worse than emotional
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    6 months ago
    ico
    guest from New Hampshire, United States
    Im a Guy so yea
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    6 months ago
    ico
    guest from Arizona, United States
    I would just leave that person, simple as that
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    6 months ago
    ico
    guest from California, United States
    at least he's happy
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    6 months ago
    ico
    guest from Michigan, United States
    Couldn't you just dump them?
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    6 months ago
    ico
    guest from the United Kingdom
    Could always slap him back..... with my cooking knives!!
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    6 months ago
    ico
    guest from Texas, United States
    I pick beat because I WILL beat him.
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    6 months ago
    ico
    guest from Victoria, Australia
    my gf dose slap me and im so young as a 11 year old
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    6 months ago
    ico
    guest from South Carolina, United States
    I honestly think, if a guy is getting beaten by a girl (surprisingly actually happens) he should have all the rights in the world to slap the b*tch... just sayin
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    6 months ago
    ico
    guest from Oklahoma, United States
    Jokes on you, I'm a masochist!
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    6 months ago
    ico
    guest from New Providence, Bahamas
    lol he wouldnt live....
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    6 months ago
    ico
    guest from Southampton, United Kingdom
    i'd fight back and tech him a lesson then leave him
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    6 months ago
    ico
    guest from Massachusetts, United States
    im a guy i could take a girls hits
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    6 months ago
    ico
    guest from New South Wales, Australia
    What if your into bondage?
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    6 months ago
    ico
    guest from Florida, United States
    I would kill a man if he beat me. At least over a broken heart I could get over it
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    6 months ago
    ico
    guest from New York, United States
    None -.-
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    6 months ago
    ico
    guest from Croydon, United Kingdom
    beat the crap out of him then find someone else
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    6 months ago
    ico
    In chess
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    6 months ago
    ico
    guest from Minnesota, United States
    I'm a girl. I could murder him and blame it on PMS.
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    6 months ago
    ico
    guest from Ohio, United States
    I love when a girl beats me during sex. I love feisty women RAWR ;)
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    6 months ago
    ico
    guest from New York, United States
    Friends: Omg what happend?! Me: I ran into the door-knob again ha ha...Silly me ..